Marriage Across The Ocean...... Is It Worth it?

MARRIAGE IN ABSENCE OF GROOM THIS LADY HAS BEEN WAITING FOR THE MAN WHO IS ABROAD FOR A LONGTIME. THEY DID THE MARRIAGE IN ABSENTIAL..POSING WITH THE PICTURE OF THE GROOM ON TRADITIONAL DAY. WHAT TYPE OF MARRIAGE WILL THIS TURN OUT TO BE? HOW DOES ONE MARRY IN ABSENTIAL??WILL THIS TYPE OF MARRIAGE WORK IN THIS DAY AND AGE?? WHAT DESPERATION WILL PUSH ANYONE TO MARRY A PICTURE INSTEAD OF THE REAL GROOM???? YOUR SINCERE THOUGHTS PLS. LETS DISCUSS THIS??